Heart never hurt a child ten things to remind parents mouths mercy, do not hurt the child's heart and then language, ruin the child's future. At the same time to tell their parents, the child should say, and what parents should do in a positive, positive, healthy, beautiful child perspective, certainly children, praise the child, encouraging children.
[first sentence], You do not want the child to be ] Children learn to talk with the child
talk back to the time when children and their parents will be more shocking silence
[third sentence], > Do not play
[fourth sentence] br> stop the empty talk
respect for criticism is the best way to
child, be careful not to hurt the child
tolerant children br>
[the fifth sentence], jump to touch or how to help children the most effective
let the child know what they are because of the lovely
Let the child know that learning is a matter of his own children's scores
Do not look too important < br>
[sixth sentence] > What a fool!
educate their children is sparse and not blocking
tell them to do something every day
[eighth sentence],
straighten the balance
never expected the children said: You can not make a confident
children need parents appreciated the willingness to be affirmed
kids a chance and let him get rid of the child to exercise
shadow hearts of inferiority
[ninth sentence] mode, the child should be individualized
not a piece of paper, not free to apply
not let your child suffer, The key to good to let children learn what
game with their own children grow at their own pace in his
[X sentence]
child's favorite way to
what kind of education their children play with heart on study
children to learn in a relaxed environment appropriate
children to play with video games < br> can not be deprived of the power of children playing children's self-confidence
play out play out of children's self-confidence
; today's children lack most of the 4 aspects:
1, the lack of happy childhood;
; 2, the lack of spiritual culture;
3, the lack of family communication;
; 4, the lack of a sense of accomplishment.
to the father and mother of five advice: < br>
1, important than the success growth;
2, has experienced important than ranking;
; 3, to pay than to give important;
4, an important dialogue than confrontation;
; 5, motivate important than the accused.
* 1, the growth important than the success
- afford to lose a child the most successful
< br> Now the parents have a strange phenomenon, what are dry for the child, that child's task is to study. I organized a summer camp, a small child watching boiled eggs in a daze, I said !, process, are arranged the cut into four pieces on the front of food, so do the old default result, but to attach importance to the growth process, take a good foot of the road, able to lose a child is the most successful child!
* 2, has experienced important than the ranking
- caused by over-indulgent incompetence
said children now bear the child psychology poor, can not afford setbacks, this is because parents do not give them through the mill, take the opportunity to failure and frustration. Can accommodate children, let their children be the last haven; can understand him, let him find the warmth and security, in a loss and no way, give him that way and not give him a wall.
* 3, to pay than to give important
- the children love the opportunity to
only give love a child , let them no sense of responsibility, it will only request. A laid-off workers know that children like to eat them, teeth bought from the market to see children eating with relish that he could not bear to Dongkuaizi, seeing the children have finished eating, my mother could not help but want to try one, the child said, Much spoiled, unlimited condone the growth of the child's selfishness, so that children are conscious of themselves, not others.
* 4, an important dialogue than confrontation
- Do not talk to kids parents For example talking about puppy love, many parents simply, brutally obstruction, forced to suppress.
adolescent children are at increased rapidly in the adult sense, but psychology is not mature period, he wants the respect of adults, but also the lack of basic trust of parents, so antagonistic strong psychological, spiritual peers towards the door only to open, this time the special needs of spiritual care that he needs to understand.
* 5, an important incentive than the accused
- enjoy the kids, telling him to express dissatisfaction with their children, demanding perfection, to bring the child's negative message to children sign of weakness, depression, and even world-weary mood. I was a child has two hobbies, one draw, 5 years old drew a big cock, my mother said: , I love painting, blackboard painting from one year to the third year, to jump the queue to farmers in rural newspapers, and later on to do the I'm an actor there. Results unfortunate thing happened: When I wear small pants, vest, hands behind the legs stand up straight after a teacher passed by me, gave me the once said, After that I think of dancing, then later on can not jump, and then later simply do not jump. So I said to the parents, the children grew up in, talent is not important is to have no interest and confidence. Do not see others, boldly cheered for the children, I believe that your child will create a miracle!
seen from the performance of their child's educational methods
1, if your child is like condemning someone else, because usually you are too much for his criticism.
2, if your child things like complaining because you are always critical of him.
3, if your child likes confrontation, because you are hostile to him, and forced.
4, if your child is not good, because you are a lack of compassion.
5, if your child is timid, shy, because he is often mocked, insulted.
6, if your child does not tell you the truth, because you catch the child's Retroflex Suffixation, turning the old account.
7, if your child does not distinguish right from wrong, because you despotism, did not give children the opportunity to own and thinking.
8, if your child is very low self-esteem, because your child always disappointment, can not be patient encouragement.
9, if your child is jealous, sensitive, afraid of injuries, because his family did not tolerance and warmth.
10, if your child does not like yourself, because you are his lack of acceptance, recognition and respect.
11, if your child does not progress, do not work hard, because you are asking too much for him that he can not.
12, if your child is very selfish because you are too spoiled for him, to what to do.
13, if your children do not understand the pains the parents, because you do not teach him to understand others.
14, if your child back, to escape, because of your contempt and was hit.
15, if your child is lazy and dependent, because you do things for the kids and decisions too much.
16, if you are a child control, strict discipline because you can not always begging children.
17, if your child is lying, deceiving, because you're not tolerant, likes to punish the child.
18, if your child is cold, attack others, because you have too much of his satire and cold.
19, if your child acts of violence, because you used violence to deal with children's issues.
20, if your child will not be strong, fear of difficult because you do not have to give him the opportunity to exercise.
the above three conditions to explain your family education in a you are serious problems of family education must be the expert guidance of the!
[first sentence], You do not want the child to be ] Children learn to talk with the child
talk back to the time when children and their parents will be more shocking silence
[third sentence], > Do not play
[fourth sentence] br> stop the empty talk
respect for criticism is the best way to
child, be careful not to hurt the child
tolerant children br>
[the fifth sentence], jump to touch or how to help children the most effective
let the child know what they are because of the lovely
Let the child know that learning is a matter of his own children's scores
Do not look too important < br>
[sixth sentence] > What a fool!
educate their children is sparse and not blocking
tell them to do something every day
[eighth sentence],
straighten the balance
never expected the children said: You can not make a confident
children need parents appreciated the willingness to be affirmed
kids a chance and let him get rid of the child to exercise
shadow hearts of inferiority
[ninth sentence] mode, the child should be individualized
not a piece of paper, not free to apply
not let your child suffer, The key to good to let children learn what
game with their own children grow at their own pace in his
[X sentence]
child's favorite way to
what kind of education their children play with heart on study
children to learn in a relaxed environment appropriate
children to play with video games < br> can not be deprived of the power of children playing children's self-confidence
play out play out of children's self-confidence
; today's children lack most of the 4 aspects:
1, the lack of happy childhood;
; 2, the lack of spiritual culture;
3, the lack of family communication;
; 4, the lack of a sense of accomplishment.
to the father and mother of five advice: < br>
1, important than the success growth;
2, has experienced important than ranking;
; 3, to pay than to give important;
4, an important dialogue than confrontation;
; 5, motivate important than the accused.
* 1, the growth important than the success
- afford to lose a child the most successful
< br> Now the parents have a strange phenomenon, what are dry for the child, that child's task is to study. I organized a summer camp, a small child watching boiled eggs in a daze, I said !, process, are arranged the cut into four pieces on the front of food, so do the old default result, but to attach importance to the growth process, take a good foot of the road, able to lose a child is the most successful child!
* 2, has experienced important than the ranking
- caused by over-indulgent incompetence
said children now bear the child psychology poor, can not afford setbacks, this is because parents do not give them through the mill, take the opportunity to failure and frustration. Can accommodate children, let their children be the last haven; can understand him, let him find the warmth and security, in a loss and no way, give him that way and not give him a wall.
* 3, to pay than to give important
- the children love the opportunity to
only give love a child , let them no sense of responsibility, it will only request. A laid-off workers know that children like to eat them, teeth bought from the market to see children eating with relish that he could not bear to Dongkuaizi, seeing the children have finished eating, my mother could not help but want to try one, the child said, Much spoiled, unlimited condone the growth of the child's selfishness, so that children are conscious of themselves, not others.
* 4, an important dialogue than confrontation
- Do not talk to kids parents For example talking about puppy love, many parents simply, brutally obstruction, forced to suppress.
adolescent children are at increased rapidly in the adult sense, but psychology is not mature period, he wants the respect of adults, but also the lack of basic trust of parents, so antagonistic strong psychological, spiritual peers towards the door only to open, this time the special needs of spiritual care that he needs to understand.
* 5, an important incentive than the accused
- enjoy the kids, telling him to express dissatisfaction with their children, demanding perfection, to bring the child's negative message to children sign of weakness, depression, and even world-weary mood. I was a child has two hobbies, one draw, 5 years old drew a big cock, my mother said: , I love painting, blackboard painting from one year to the third year, to jump the queue to farmers in rural newspapers, and later on to do the I'm an actor there. Results unfortunate thing happened: When I wear small pants, vest, hands behind the legs stand up straight after a teacher passed by me, gave me the once said, After that I think of dancing, then later on can not jump, and then later simply do not jump. So I said to the parents, the children grew up in, talent is not important is to have no interest and confidence. Do not see others, boldly cheered for the children, I believe that your child will create a miracle!
seen from the performance of their child's educational methods
1, if your child is like condemning someone else, because usually you are too much for his criticism.
2, if your child things like complaining because you are always critical of him.
3, if your child likes confrontation, because you are hostile to him, and forced.
4, if your child is not good, because you are a lack of compassion.
5, if your child is timid, shy, because he is often mocked, insulted.
6, if your child does not tell you the truth, because you catch the child's Retroflex Suffixation, turning the old account.
7, if your child does not distinguish right from wrong, because you despotism, did not give children the opportunity to own and thinking.
8, if your child is very low self-esteem, because your child always disappointment, can not be patient encouragement.
9, if your child is jealous, sensitive, afraid of injuries, because his family did not tolerance and warmth.
10, if your child does not like yourself, because you are his lack of acceptance, recognition and respect.
11, if your child does not progress, do not work hard, because you are asking too much for him that he can not.
12, if your child is very selfish because you are too spoiled for him, to what to do.
13, if your children do not understand the pains the parents, because you do not teach him to understand others.
14, if your child back, to escape, because of your contempt and was hit.
15, if your child is lazy and dependent, because you do things for the kids and decisions too much.
16, if you are a child control, strict discipline because you can not always begging children.
17, if your child is lying, deceiving, because you're not tolerant, likes to punish the child.
18, if your child is cold, attack others, because you have too much of his satire and cold.
19, if your child acts of violence, because you used violence to deal with children's issues.
20, if your child will not be strong, fear of difficult because you do not have to give him the opportunity to exercise.
the above three conditions to explain your family education in a you are serious problems of family education must be the expert guidance of the!
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